BECOMING PHINDI
Hi, I’m Phindi. I filed for a divorce almost a year ago. This was a necessary, but difficult decision. Since then I have been on a quest to find myself. I am unapologetically practicing self love. Join me as I share my life experiences. You never know, we may have some things in common. Maybe you can be encouraged
Letting Go of My House: Embracing a New Chapter
For years, my house was more than just a structure—it was a reflection of a life I thought I would build, but never truly settled into. It was my marital home, a space where memories were made, lessons were learned, and where I, in many ways, outgrew my old self. But now, the time has…
Redefining “Arrival”: Navigating Life After Divorce
As children, we’re conditioned to believe that “arriving” means reaching a certain milestone—achieving the career we want, marrying the right person, and creating a picture-perfect family. For so much of my life, that was the goal. Finish school, become accomplished, get married, have children. And then, I would have arrived. But what happens when life…
Officially Divorced
So what is next? For now, I just want to enjoy moving without the weight of a man who adds no value to my life. And enjoy traveling with my toddler.
Get a Pre-Nup
Five years into our marriage my net worth was drastically different from when we first met. I now made five times more than my husband and had substantially more in retirement. I was carrying the family financially. This was the reality I failed to consider as a student. But here I was, living in a 50/50 state with my…
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Becoming Phindi 